Yeah, I ended up making a new account (also since my old messenger adress was getting tons of spam mail too), and now I'm being much more wary with who I let into my contact list there
I like other people to, since I usually only IM with friends or people I'm comfortable with (not random people on dA). People are usually busy, and I feel awkward when I say "hi", and I'm interrupting something.
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There's like one person on my lists that I actually start conversations with.